Dating In College

Now don't get me wrong, I'm not completely around the bend or anything like that, but please stop telling me to enjoy being single because “one day” I might find myself with a wife, youngsters and a condo with huge monthly fees, being single sucks and stinks to high heaven. I have been single for all my life, single is my closest companion,  I have had more relationship problem's than relationships, I want to have a relationship with someone other than my sex toys, college dating is very frustrating for me. Why does it appear like all my friends are in a committed relationship but me, Why can I not be successful at finding the love of my life?

I once asked a friend (no not my gold fish), but rather a college friend how she does it, I told her that when I go to parties, other women seem to have no problem connecting with guys, but no matter who I take a shine to, I am constantly outmaneuvered by other women who walk away with the trophy. Her answer was to question me if I would just let someone jump in front of me in line at the grocery store. I replied I would kick them and embarrass them into standing at the back of the line like everyone else. She said good, the next time some girl tries to take your man just give her the heave ho, slide up to the hot dude of your dreams and make him slobber all over you. Maybe I should have asked my chia pet.

I guess I do not get some college guys, I'm a smart attractive coed but they act like I am the toe jamb in their shoes. The ones I do go out with are only interested in sexual stimulation, for many college guys you have to shell out or get out, so I'd rather get out.

But its not just females that have problems, there are college guys who have problems with coeds. It seems if you won't get in the sack with them they think you are gay, its too bad because most people have more to offer than just sex. The guys tell me that many of the coeds want them do the horizonal mambo with them and if they don't make a move she tells other people that they have no sex drive. These are nice guys that have respect for women and don't just think of them as an easy piece, why can't these women see that these men will not accept this sort of treatment.

There may be, however, a silver lining to this cloud, several of the guys and girls have decided to go online to some of the college dating sites they've heard about and sign up.. There have been some real success stories floating around about how guys and girls met their soul mates on these sites. They said the people on these sites don't care what color your hair is and they are into more activities than just sex, sex, sex, they're decent people, and college students like us. They have a life plan that includes more than just getting through the current semester. They plan to meet and settle down with the person of their dreams. My best friend met his future wife on an online college dating site, I was surprised because it happened so quickly, that they were an item before I knew he was going to join an online dating site.

I have decided that I'm going to give it a try for myself.  My friends have given me a 'college dating sites' link to try. This is where they started and they recommend it to everyone. Who knows maybe I'll finally find someone who is caring and decent. If you are in college or looking to date someone  who is in college why don't you follow this link:

Coed Dating